Thursday, April 30, 2009

Proposal bout the coming activity

Date: 18th May 2009
Time: afternoon
8.00pm
Venue:Sentosa Old Town Kopitiam
Occasion: afternoon- movie at anywhere(optional)
8.00pm-U6A 2006/2007 gathering and farewell with suhan 'ah po'

Date: 26th May 2009
Time: 8.00am
Venue: Catholic High School
Occasion: Meeting session with F6 Junior (upper and lower)
Agenda: -introduction about the uni or college that you are studying(course, which sem)
-what obstacle that you faced when you are applying any tertiary education
-your experience in anything after F6 life
-what are your advice to them bout the course in uni, F6 subject, when choosing uni

The date of meeting them is only can be earlier
i hope we have already got some 'benefits' from our senior, we should also do something to benefit them to continue this culture.
Pls reply me asap by next week as i need to discuss the time with Pn yap bout the changing of time and date.
thank you for your cooperations.
see you guys soon:)

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

U6A 2006/2007

I hav something wanna discuss with you all:

1. Since everybody are separated after graduates, the only period we can meet each other is during the tertiary academic holidays. So i would like to state one date where everybody can attend this gathering on that date besides other ocassion, we don seem like have a gathering date for us to meet up..just when it is ask to come out them come out..I suggest that the date that we should set for it is in the mid of may..so, i need your opinion. Either wan to hav it or not.

but this is wat i plan for this time...on 16 or 17 (planned date) of May, i would like to have a mini gathering starting out first in conjunction with our little farewell for su han, the 'lost girl' in the class after graduates who is going to study in Kampar in the coming June. The venue will be at SS2 Mong Kok Restaurant at night. Pls inform me if u are interested to join :) Tq for co-operation ;)

2. Do you all still remember there was some seniors came back to Catholic and briefed us bout life after F6 either in IPTA or IPTS. i plan to do so for our juniors. i still haven ask Pn. Yap Rio bout it and the date hav to depends on the exam date of the school. Is either in the end of May or in the mid of June after the school break. As usual, suggest me one date i'll tell Pn. Yap bout it on this Friday maybe...

That's all for it, feel free to leave any suggest, no matter is telling me don be so 'gepo' or wat, i also can learn something through these suggestions.

See you all soon:)

Monday, April 13, 2009

Human first impression

What will u look at when u meet a person that u don know for the first time?
Face? Attire? Actions?

Through my experience, the 3 things that i mentioned up there should be the 3 criteria that i hav take note when i met wit someone. There is a lot of real life example when i recall back to the frens that i hav met.

f2 frens-they are really good frens of mine, i still remember the sweet memory wit them during school life. Until now i still very very miss them. They don gave me any bad impression during my whole life.

f6 frens-there are quite a few groups of fren in f6. there is one humor group, one frenly group, one study group, one desperate group, one 'gepo' group...but all is in a big family. There are only a few people in these group can be closed frens in it..the only frens who are laugh together from the bottom of our heart, share problems and memory together and so on...

Uni frens-well, this is the main point that i wanna talk about. when i first met my roomate, i felt dislike bout him..sry to say that because he and i were giving each other a 'stranger' face and squezz our face like...dunno how to describe..after a few while staying wit him, i really get to know sometimes really cannot judge a book by its cover. He is a very considerable person. He thinks a lot when comes to anything. Although he said he is not good in communication, but in the room, we talked a lot-bout ourselves, others...only one word which bothering him-lazy..

There is a fren now in uum where i know him not very well since we met. Just both of us are taking advantage from each other. But somehow i started to feel bored when talking with him and sometimes feels annoying then listen to the voice..i dunno why, but almost everybody in the college notice his voice coming near to them, they will start to keep the environment silent and try not to talk to him or if really wans to talk sure something teasing him coming out..hope i can stay fren until the end of the course..

There is one more..i met a fren in uum whereby she has a very disgusting attitude, stubbon face, act cute some more. i never seen a person wit this kind of look b4...vomit..you know wat? when first met wit her, she start to act very pity, seems like everybody must be good to her. Later she did wat she thinks is right without asking for some assure..And then she start to act pity again to ask you what did she do wrongly and keep asking for your advice..whereby the advice already given, yet still continue doing the same thing..no choice to face her cause we r working as a team...some more during our main event of the project..when everybody is busy wit works and duty for the event until no time to go and take their bath...she is the only one who went back and take an hour bath and make up until like a clown. Disgusting when she approach me to ask something after i brief the others..that's why i was runnin' all the time when the event is also running..haha-one advice to all of blog surfer, be a smart person sometime instead of acting blur and destructing something..after the event..worse..when we are having a dinner in a restaurant after our post mortum for the event. my leader ask her to collect money from the member to pay for something..as a secretary, i think he is the one who should memorize all the names of the members besides the leader and ass. leader who are memorizing them...she tend to ask me "who else still haven pay har" wit her face reaching mine very close..then i step back a step wit a leg remain in front to form a distance...but still she din stop doing it..really really disgusting >.<

As a whole, in university stage, there are 3 kinds of frens for me
1. HI-BYE fren
2. working partner...
3. closed frens..just a few..

one more one more---disgusting fren..>.<

Phew~~finally can get a little short period rest

It's been a long time putting my blog aside while i was busy with my uni's projects, but it finally comes to an end for this month. Wat i mean is this month..haiz..still going to continue brand new project when i go back to uni...sigh..>.<"(tired)

In this several months, i had learn a lot of skills:

Skill of being silent when i met somebody who just know how to talk well but when something practical comes to him...i am the one who going to do the practical part..that's why i learn more compare with them..maybe i am wrong..maybe what i saw was not the real person of them..who can prove it to me? Short and sweet-work more than talk is a better way of showing someone's commitment.

Another skill is i've learn how to say no to something. It seem not really that effective when i say no although i've already speak out the uncertainty of the mine..sometimes when i say no, i really mean it. But there is some kind of people where they dunno the things and actions that they did really will gonna make somebody feels disgusting..and there is also a kind of people didn't think deeply bout the problem when they are planning an activity. It will just bring about inconvenient or maybe disaster to an activity if the team of people are not wise enough to consider the problem.

More thing is learnt how to work with somebody where they think their work is perfect and stubborn to change when they have a chance to change it. So what i did is keep quiet for the moment then just do it by my own..i know this is not good, but when you working with this kind of boastful people, this should be the way.

To complete a project
-communication is the main problem that should be solve in the very beginning.
-don't ever do any assumption to anything that you are not sure, be brave to ask some wise questions to the aged people.
-think wide and deep to things that might be trouble the activity where you have to have another plan to overcome the uncertainty and try your best to avoid it cause prevention is better than cure.

All these not necessary just can use it in projects, it can also be apply in any other occasion-such as frenship, family...

That is all for the moment. see you guys soon enough